Thursday, April 28, 2011

He Couldn't Even Show Up to Court

I have been so busy. Finals, signing up for a new university semester, doctor's appointments and finally being diagnosed with the sleeping disorders that CAS and my ex seem to think I should be persecuted for. Moderate sleep apnea, severe insomnia and a form of narcolepsy. So I am not lazy (like my ex always said I was) and I have to sleep (although CAS thinks it is bad parenting) and I am having more sleep studies done in the upcoming weeks to see what will manage my disorders the best possible way.

But I digress. The case conference was on April 11th. We submitted that I would like to move to Alberta to gain employment and to be closer to my family. We waited for my ex. We were to start at 9:00 am. His lawyer arrived five minutes late and she said he had called her the previous Thursday. He claimed he had been out of town for weeks which was why he had not spoken to her sooner. (My oldest daughter saw him around town so he lied). We waited while his lawyer tried calling him and called her office. Nothing. So we finally began the proceedings. My son's lawyer stated that my son refuses to see his father and that my son told him I tell him to call his father. He said I told him the same thing. Then he said he believes us (and he should as it is true). He told the judge that he does not want to force my son to see his father and the judge agreed. Then my ex's lawyer started with this BS about me calling CAS on my ex and his girlfriend and how CAS is "currently investigating" my lies. She told the judge that apparently Curt has never once called CAS on me and the workers told him that. Funny, the workers told me that he and his girlfriends are the only ones who have ever called CAS on me! Of course CAS still has not submitted a thing to the courts so how can we show that, right? I have no reason to lie. Maybe the workers lie but I know my ex sure does.

So it was determined that on June 27th the judge will decided if I can leave the province to pursue employment and how much child support I will be getting.

In the meantime, my doctor's office called me looking for my ex. It seems he and his girlfriend took my son to my family doctor and caused a big ruckus about me abusing my son and his "horrible behaviour" and got a referral to a pediatrician. So now I have an appointment to sort that out!

Do I call CAS and talk to supervisors and figure out this BS about them lying to me, to the courts, etc? Do I complain about the alienation they created? I am so confused. And angry. I just want out of this hole. I also want to feel better and these sleep studies are so annoying but it may help!

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